Thursday, May 30, 2013

Jealousy in relationships

Intro

Let us first define the word 'Jealousy'...

Jealousy:

Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection.

My opinion

We all have learned that jealousy is not good. I mean there's nothing beneficial about it. Why would we even be jealous? Okay, in some situations you can say that it's really for nothing. But when it comes to love. I think you have the right to be jealous.

Why? To me ... Jealousy is a type of 'caring'. You can vote me as an imbecile, but it's true. Why would we be jealous? Because we CARE, damn it. We fear that there might happen something wrong to our partner. We trust our partner but we don't trust the other persons around our partner. Again communication is the key here. How do you expect us to stop being jealous if most of the break-ups we hear about are caused by adultery? Just think about it. Jealousy is okay, it's okay to be jealous.

Research and every other medium

You can find everywhere or you can hear everywhere that jealousy is a disease. But you should apply your own theory. Just ignore those megalomaniac bastards. Do what's best for you and your partner. Most important, do what's best for your life.

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